Do we make things happen or do things happen to us?
There was a time when I believed in making things happen and there have also been times when I felt that actually I didn't do anything....things happened to me, for the better or for the worse. What's the truth then ? It looks like both I and things happen to each other mutually ; as if we are in some sort of equilibrium. Whenever things happen to me, I must happen back to things in a way that restores the equilibrium. Is this the eventual explanation of the eternal tug of war between one's situation and one's free will, the never ending argument of determinism vs possibilism...? Think about it...
